Making Anal Sex More Pleasurable For F/F Relationships

 

Anal sex is a topic that has garnered attention for its potential to add a new dimension of pleasure and intimacy to sexual experiences. While often associated with heterosexual relationships, anal play is also enjoyed by many lesbians and bisexual women as a means of exploring their bodies and deepening their connections. This isn't all about sex and orgasms. Sometimes it's just about excitement, foreplay, feeling close to your partner and finding new and innovative ways to have anal besides the usual ways.

Also, some NEW positions you might not have heard of before, might give you more comfortability than the usual "normal" anal positions.

If you've had anal sex before and HATED it or you want to do it or try again here are some of the best positions to try for anal sex. This includes dildos, strapons, fingers, etc. Use your imagination! Anal sex is not just for men ffs. It's for anyone. I'm not into gatekeeping at all. Screw that. If you want it and your partner does too, go for it.

The Crab: One woman reclines on her back, her legs gracefully spread apart. The other woman positions herself atop, facing her partner, with legs extended and hands providing essential support. The partner holds her lover's hands just above the knees. This vantage allows both to share a gaze, capturing every emotion, dancing in rhythm, and engaging in a wordless exchange that amplifies their mutual gratification. Super. Sexy.

Doggy Style: SOME people think this is a male driven position. I disagree. HUGELY. Anyone can do these positions. One woman takes a poised doggy-style stance, her elbows and knees forming an open embrace as she keeps her head aligned. Her female partner stands behind, knees resting on the ground, hands resting on her lover's waist. This stance is a beloved favorite, celebrated for its comfort, the ability to delve deeply, and the profound connection it allows. 

This TENDS to be one of the most common positions because it's one of the ones most commonly referred to in movies, tv shows, books, etc. So everyone knows this position because it's more commonly talked about. BUT, if it's the ONLY one you know, these other positions will give you OTHER options.

Reverse Cowgirl: One woman reclines on her back, legs extended slightly apart, head gently raised. The other woman positions herself upon her partner's body facing away, knees bent, and feet tracing a path along her partner's form. One hand rests on her partner's knee. 

The partner on their back can also reach forward and play with their mates breasts, clit, or touch them in other ways. Again, use your imagination and if there is something you cannot reach but want to touch - ASK!

Butterfly Sex Position: Women often seek out sensual postures, recognizing their capacity to deepen the bonds of shared intimacy. In this position, one woman reclines on the bed, her head cradled by the softness of a pillow. Her arms extend alongside her body, and her knees are gently bent, invitingly parting to reveal the beauty between. 

The other woman gracefully kneels against the bed, hands finding their place upon her lover's hips. The partner raises her legs, draping them over sturdy shoulders.

Spoon Position: The spoon sex position unfolds as a gentle invitation, this works really well in the morning when arousal stirs and your partner slumbers nearby. Here, simplicity reigns supreme. One woman rests on her side, her right leg gracefully bent at the knee. The other woman, nestled behind, creates a snug fit - it's literally JUST the spoon position. 

You can use NOTHING in terms of penetration or you can use fingers, a strap on, or another toy. This position might also be a welcomed one by your partner if she likes morning sex or being woken up for sex. Everything you need is right there. This is not complex at all.

The Edge: The woman sits on the bed so that its corner is between her bent legs, she puts her hands back and leans back to support her body. The woman sits on her strap-on atop with her back to her. She lifts her legs on her tiptoes, and places her palms on her partner’s inner thigh.

The Oath: If I had a list of my top 5 favorite sex positions this one would be on it. You can also do this one vaginally, or no penetration at all. It’s super sexy, very intimate and a great way to simply be close, get sensual, and spend a little time kissing, touching, talking, etc. 

 Yes, it’s also a great foreplay position. I love it. One woman kneels on her knees and opens them up with their back straight, the other woman also stands on her knees, nestling tightly with her back to her partner’s chest. The woman in front's legs, are between the partners legs, she hugs her neck with one hand, giving access to her breast. 

The position is very sensual and will be more suitable for a loving couple that gets pleasure not only from physical contact, but from the physical intimacy and caresses. This sounds confusing so Ill include an image.

Doggy Upgrade (haha): Different people refer to this position using various names such as Upgraded Doggy, Doggy 2, Chibi, and more. In essence, one woman positions herself on her knees closer to the edge of the bed, head lowered and using her arms for stability. 

The other woman aligns her knees at the very edge of the bed and engages in penetration from behind. The penetrating partner can engage in additional actions such as touching, kissing, and caressing the clitoris, breasts, back, and more of the partner being penetrated. 

Similarly, the classic doggy style can also be adapted on the bed using this approach. The bed offers enhanced comfort for the partner being penetrated and provides additional leverage for both individuals involved.

So there ya have it, some EXTRA position ideas for anal sex, or whatever you want to use them for.